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<p style="text-align:center;">&#8216;<strong>Idealism</strong>&#8216; defined is, &#8220;the practice of forming or pursing ideals, especially <strong>unrealistically</strong>&#8220;</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">From a young age, girls are subconsciously told that college is the time to find a mate. If our relatives aren&#8217;t asking us about it, the media is constantly reminding us that <strong>now</strong> is the time. Whitley met Dewayne at Hillman, and there are a host of other movies and TV shows that showcase college relationships.</p>
<p>To be honest, I&#8217;d never paid it much attention until now, my senior year of college. Here I am, one foot inside the classroom and the other just about ready to walk across the stage when it hits me; &#8220;Who will I marry if I haven&#8217;t met him in college?&#8221; I know it sounds crazy, and I&#8217;m actually laughing as I write this but seriously! College is the time to find yourself, enjoy your experiences, and all of the other cliché things they tell you to do.</p>
<p>But after I&#8217;ve done all of those things, received my degree, and I&#8217;ve moved to a new city where I don&#8217;t know anyone, can I expect to meet Mr. Right at the grocery store when I&#8217;m struggling to carry my bags? Or will he come to my rescue when I&#8217;ve gotten a flat tire on the side of the road? All valuable questions that have (at some point in time) crossed our minds.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the silver lining in this cloud, college isn&#8217;t the place most married couples meet. Actually, only about <span style="color:#ff00ff;">28%</span> of married couples attended the same college. The other 72%? Maybe those are the people who met at the grocery store or when there was a flat tire. Who knows? I&#8217;d just like you to put all worries or concerns to the side when it comes to meeting your prince in college. If you&#8217;ve already met him, more power to you! But, if you haven&#8217;t don&#8217;t stress.</p>
<p>Queen, you have so much going for yourself. This time is the time for <span style="color:#ff00ff;">reinvention</span>. Make mistakes but most importantly, learn from them. Build and grow your brand or image. Establish relationships with <span style="color:#ff00ff;">valuable</span> people who genuinely want to see you become a better person. That is truly the essence of your time in college, use it to your full advantage.</p>
<p><span style="color:#ff00ff;"><em><strong>From Me to You, Love. </strong></em></span></p>
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The Idealism of Finding a Husband in College
