My Life Lessons

The Idealism of Finding a Husband in College

‘Idealism‘ defined is, “the practice of forming or pursing ideals, especially unrealistically“ From a young age, girls are subconsciously told that college is the time to find a mate. If our relatives aren’t asking us about it, the media is constantly reminding us that now is the time. Whitley met Dewayne at Hillman, and there […]

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Love Doctor

The Love Doctor’s 5 Step Guide to Romance

So, I have a line sister who is the self-proclaimed, “Love Doctor”. It started as a joke among us but eventually she became the person anyone went to for advice involving people they were interested in. One day last week while she was giving her usual spill about men, I had an idea, “the blog […]

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My Life Lessons, Quotes

In Search of New Horizons

“You cannot swim for new horizons until you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.” -William Faulker    Recently, my university had its spring commencement ceremonies, commonly referred to as, graduation. I’ve never really been a fan of graduations because they tend to be long and in time my back begins to hurt […]

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My Life Lessons

Do You “Like” You?

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” -Ralph Waldo Emerson Since when did Instagram likes determine someone’s value, worth, or even competency? Our generation has transformed the boundaries with all things technology based in the last few years. There are all types of […]

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My Life Lessons

The love you deserve? [Part 2]

“We accept the love we think we deserve.” –Stephen Chbosky Part 2: If you’ve read the previous post, then you are familiar with my friend ‘Casey’. If you haven’t read the post, I suggest that you do so that this article won’t be confusing to you. Casey and I have another friend named ‘Ashley’. We met Ashley […]

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My Life Lessons

Do Good…& Don’t Stop

During my freshman year of college I stayed in Wheatley dorm, which was definitely not one of FAMU’s best housing facilities in more ways than one. But I was told that the residents would compensate for whatever the dorm may have been lacking in, including but certainly not limited to: Hot water Mold free walls […]

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